Are you tired of just sitting at home every Friday and Saturday night? Do you often crave for attention from somebody that, even if it is just a guy? Do you feel that there is nothing wrong with you and that everybody has something greater to offer than you?
If you are looking for a date yet lack the courage to ask one from a guy, then it’s time for you to stop feeling like this is the only option available and believing that you are unworthy of love. You deserve a guy who will appreciate you for who you really are.
Read on to find out how to get a guy to ask you out despite of shyness
1 – Self acceptance
Guys do not like to be around women who are still expecting positive things from them. This attitude will only tax their wit and it will make them see you as spoilsport.
When you believe that you do not deserve to be loved for who you are, it will come out in your every action. What you do not realize is that it will always show itself in your behavior and self-assuredness.
2 – Give him a nudge in the right direction
You need to give him a hint that you are always available for a date or a conversation. Give him a suggestion of what he can do on a Friday or Saturday night before any big event. Let him know through a hint of a smile that you enjoy his company. This will man up his decision to suggest that he take you for a date.
3 – Research and find out what he likes
It is no use just asking him about what he likes. You need to find out about the things he enjoys doing to have something in common to talk about with him. To give him a hint about your hobbies or interests that you have in common will give him the idea that you are easy to have a conversation with.
He will realize that you are not just a girl next door type but also someone who shares his common interests. If he is into art, then research art galleries, art shows and how to go about it. It will also give you a chance to talk about your own hobbies or interests.
4 – Have confidence in you and let it show
Be comfortable in your own skin. Do not need to be someone you are not. You are unique and confident in who you are so do not turn you back into being somebody else. Being confident is a quality that exudes in a woman. Maturity, however, is something that does not display in a woman who seems to have no confidence at all.
5 – Ask him for a date
You do not have to wait for him to invite you. You may ask him to hang out with you. Or you may tell him that you enjoy his company and would enjoy spending time alone with him. In either situation, you must remember to throw him a hint to make him know that you are interested. Do not appear too aggressive because your femininity can easily be misconstrued as aggression.
So, have confidence in your words and know that he will not run away but offer to take him along should he made the suggestion. Before you seek to have a guy ask you out for a date, you need to make sure that you are indeed confident.
Approaching a guy for a date is not the same as a business transaction. You need to make sure that you are ready and your attitude is in line with this. And when you are finally ready, you must be ready to let this lead into a deeper conversation that will show him that you are indeed confident and not just another pretty face.